Sunday, March 30, 2025

Profiles in Discourage: Frank "Master Debater" Y.

Frank Y. was my sponsor from October to November of 2022. I connected with him prior to the 12-Steps retreat. After confirming him as sponsor, I waited till the end of the retreat and gave Dick H. the notice of separation. Frank was recommended by a brother in the 12-Steps fellowship. As the brother puts it:

Tuesday, March 11, 2025

Profiles in Discourage: Dick H. – Steps 6 & 7

Working Steps 6 & 7 with Dick H. was akin to working with a bureaucrat or a social worker. They ask a set of questions, one responds. Don't volunteer information. Keep it short and simple. Communication is dry and clinical. It was difficult with Dick due in large part to what happened in Steps 4 & 5 and me actively resenting him. Ultimately, I realized not only I wasn't ready to move forward, but also what a dick Dick was.